Love Yourself MoreLove Yourself More

As Valentine’s Day approaches, you may need to be reminded to LOVE YOURSELF MORE!

Yes, I said it. Society today seems aimed to take, drain, and exhaust us. We all need to remember who needs your energy most, YOU.

Below you’ll find Self Love Ideals and 8 selected Mindful Gifts for Self Love and Growth. Time to refocus, recharge, re-calibrate, and recognize the steps ahead to help the you today become the best version of you tomorrow.

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Mindful Self Love Ideals To Live By

Have Fun By Yourself

When you can have fun by yourself, you may gain confidence. Being able to enjoy your own company can help you let go of the need for acceptance or inclusion by others.

Forgive Yourself

Look back and reflect on past decisions and actions. If you can accept, you can move forward and let go. You deserve forgiveness. Once you pinpoint room for improvement, you can try to write it down, tear it up, and bury it, thus allowing yourself to grow.

Challenge Yourself with New Situations

Nothing is more of a confidence boost than challenging yourself to something outside of your comfort zone and attempting it! Whether you achieve your desired outcome or not, you can now tell yourself you tried and you didn’t self destruct. The next time will be even easier; just remind yourself “I can do this.” You can make it fun and simple by just trying something new such as a hobby, activity/club, trip, or restaurant spot!


Let’s stop wishing and hoping and start planning and achieving! You are 42% more likely to achieve your goals by writing them down. It helps you clarify exactly what it is you’d like to achieve and results in motivating you and keeping you accountable.

Make sure your goals are…

  • Specific: Clear and defined.
  • Measurable: Steps, exact amounts, & dates to be able to measure progress.
  • Attainable: Achievable steps required to meet goals.
  • Relevant: Make it important! It must matter to you, drive you, and motivate you. Otherwise, why would you put your energy into accomplishing it?
  • Achievable by a Reasonable Deadline: When would you like to achieve your goal by? By setting a time limit, you can assess and time out the steps needed and then adjust as you go. Don’t overwhelm yourself, consider current responsibilities and restraints.
Write It Down

Writing down your feelings can be a positive way of letting go of negative emotions and experiences. Brainstorming, dreams, to do lists, and creative writing are all positive activities to release creative energy.

Be Your #1 Cheerleader Instead of Leader of the Firing Squad

Build yourself up. Prevent setting yourself up to fall or you’re the one taring you down. Praise yourself, smile, and be thoughtful of your mind, heart, and body. Replace negative doubts or insults with forgiveness and encouragement. Remind yourself of why you put forth your energy into the aspects of your life and review your goals. Allow yourself to take breaks so you do not get burnt out at, well life.

Set Healthy Boundaries: Ability to Say No To Others

Set and honor healthy boundaries. Decide what you are and aren’t okay with. You are the gatekeeper of compromising your morals. Enjoy doing what you can, when you can. It’s easier to let anxieties of other’s expectations go when you respect yourself and set healthy boundaries.

Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

You decide how much energy to spend negatively. Try to worry less or become frustrated by non threatening issues. (If it isn’t detrimental to yourself or your morals it probably isn’t worth your energy.)

Create Manifestation (Vision) and Celebration Boards

While working towards your goals, a great motivator is to see and review your goals (whether in list form or image). At the same time, it’s important to celebrate your mini victories. Self appreciation is a rewarding and encouraging feeling. Take some time to envision your goals and find, print, make, or cut out images that represent what you want to achieve, where you want to go, and how you want to be. You also want to include an image to represent why you want to focus your energy towards manifesting your future. Place these items as decoratively or plainly in a single place and display somewhere you see daily. On a second “board,” list out your accomplishments. Leave a place for you to add to this list and practice giving yourself credit.

Take Care Of Yourself

Being true to yourself (trusting the voice in your head or feeling in your gut), providing yourself enough nutrients and rest, removing and overcoming stressors, sticking to your morals and boundaries, and fueling your heart and mind with love, acceptance, and growth. When you take care of yourself, you then can be the best version of you which in turn you can be the best you can be for others.

Mindful Gifts For Self

Warm, Relax, and Soothe

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Serenade Your Soul

It provides a total brain workout. Research has shown that listening to music can reduce anxiety, blood pressure, and pain as well as improve sleep quality, mood, mental alertness, and memory.

Ultimate Tool For Self Growth: Self Exploration, Healing, & Reflection

An idea or thought which goes unwritten soon becomes a forgotten memory. This daily, interactive journal is designed to aid you . Featuring 365 days of thought provoking prompts, inspiring quotes, open-ended questions, daily practices, and motivational soul food with room for writing..

Commit to Self Love Improvement

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Plan Your Success & Schedule Your Rewards

  • Helps with time management & productivity.
  • Excellent stress relief (in the action and being organized).
  • More time for creative activities, rewards, and relaxation.
  • Keep track of important information.
    (Paraphrased from Psychology Today)

Vita-Me-Ta-A-Better-Self (Vitamins)

Magnesium can improve brain function, ease muscle aches, relieve anxiety, migraines, and constipation according to research, Researchers believe vitamin B6 might help reduce symptoms of depression by helping body make serotonin.

Super Charged Plant Power

  • Anxiety relief, Pain relief, Sleep Aide
  • Anti-seizure, Anti Acne, Cancer Growth Deterrent
  • Preservation of neuronal integrity
  • Known to have many more health benefits (learn more)

Set a Tranquil Tone

Amethyst is a natural tranquilizer, it relieves stress and strain, soothes irritability, balances mood, dispels anger, fear and anxiety. Alleviates sadness and grief, and dissolves negativity. Exhibits spiritual awareness, intuition and psychic abilities.

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Introducing a big hearted group who likes to connect, share, and care with one another regarding fandoms and arts & crafts. Ongoing events to highlight artists and feature vendors will be held. Even though we all care about our fellow human and are keeping away from social gatherings does not mean we have to stop being social!

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On Saturday, April 4th, from 10AM to 12PM et. come connect, share, and care with others by joining the fun or participating online! There will be time slots to sign up and join Sarah Allison on screen for the virtual and live event. Participants can discuss, explain, or sell their work! Whether you want to share an image of your work or join Sarah on screen and explain you arts &/or crafts or a how to demonstration! If you’re not an artist, no worries, you should come and show support or possibly find something to tickle your mind. Fandom+ merchants will also have an opportunity to have their products featured during the event. Time slots will be available soon. Sign up early and RSVP to attend the celebration of community, fandom, and arts & crafts.

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Supernatural Series – Fandom Inspired Pendant GiveawaySupernatural Series – Fandom Inspired Pendant Giveaway

After 15 Supernatural seasons, the sensationsal tv series is coming to an end, and that’s why we are offering a fandom inspired pendant giveaway.

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1.Of.A.Kind.Mind is now offering Custom Supernatural Inspired Jewelry, Keychains, and Decorations! Thats right!!! You choose from series charms inspired by Sam and Dean Winchester, Castile, and more! Next pick two accent colors and which pendant you’d like them attached to and presto. Have your very own Supernatural inspired memento to cherish and remind you of all the years you’ve shared with millions from the fandom.

Supernatural is an American television series by Eric Kripke. It is filmed in Vancouver, Canada, and debuted on September 13, 2005, on The WB, and is now part of The CW’s lineup.

The show follows brothers Sam and Dean Winchester, who travel across America in a black 1967 Chevy Impala investigating and combating paranormal events and other unexplained occurrences, many of them based on American urban legends and folklore as well as classic supernatural creatures such as vampires, werewolves, and ghosts.

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Spike + Xander = SpanderSpike + Xander = Spander

Recently I received a custom order inspired by the Buffy the Vampire Slayer characters Xander and Spike (“Spander”), my very first pendant request inspired by this wacky duo. I couldn’t wait to get started!

We worked together to decide which charms would truly represent them. I did a quick mental inventory of the charms I already had, however, I knew I needed a few more for this ultimate key.

Together we decided to use the largest key available for this combination of charms. The large key, meant for a decoration piece, is about 5 inches tall and up to 2 1/2 inches wide. In this way, she can display her key while at home to enjoy.

Knowing this client personally, I knew she’d want to show off her piece of art. I asked her if she’d like a clip to make it easy to take from a decoration to a wearable totem. She put her faith, literally in my hands.

Read on to find out how the final key came together. Customize your own Nicholas Brendon inspired key pendant now! Coming Soon: Customize a Buffy Inspired key pendant! Sign up for mindful announcements and updates so you don’t miss a fandom beat! Just enter email on the side or footer menu under Mindful Updates!

The Inspiration

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“Spander” Screenshot – Buffy the Vampire Slayer Season 7, Episode 6

Spike Elements

  • Fangs: Vampire’s are known for their blood sucking fangs. However in one episode, Xander said Spike was fangless while living in Xander’s basement. To convey this fangless idea, I wrapped wire around the fangs to express the idea of a fangless vampire.
  • Leather Duster: Spike typically would be spotted wearing his aged leather duster.
  • Boot: Spike paired a pair of tall boots with every outfit choice.
  • Whiskey Bottle: Spike is often found nursing from his favorite bottle when he’s heartbroken.

Xander Elements

  • Construction Hat: “Xander” worked in construction from seasons 4 to 7 in between supporting the Slayer, saving the world, giving world saving speeches himself, and opening the second High School located atop of the hellmouth.
  • Skateboard: “Xander Harris” had a grand entrance in the series premiere, Welcome to the Hellmouth.
  • Pizza Box: Xander delivered pizza for a time, often sharing a box with the Scooby Gang.

Spander Elements

  • Hawaiian T-shirt: “Xander” was known for his vivid and printed wardrobe, however in one doomed episode, Spike wore his shirt while planning to fall upon a stake to kill himself.
  • TV Set: The TV Spike often watched Passions and Dawson’s Creek. Xander enjoyed watching Bollywood flicks with Buffy and Willow.
  • Rope: I tied a cord to the key to represent Spike being tied up to Xander’s recliner in the basement as an extra safety measure after he had a chip implanted.
  • X & S: I added simple letter charms representing the names Xander & Spike.

Finishing Touches

I added a lava stone to connect to the clasp to finish off the pendant. I also added this mindful item to use as an oil diffuser to help relieve headaches or stress. Next I used a flower on the clasp to tie back to the Hawaiian shirt charm featured on the key.

The Result!

Completed Custom “Spander” Key

Give Me More Spander!

  • Join Nicholas Brendon for a live reading of a Spander fan-fiction on New Year’s Eve. Click here to find out more.
  • Contact me and plan the perfect charm! Let’s design the perfect key pendant together. Show off your favorite fandom, show or couple.
  • Read the Buffy the Vampire Slayer Season 10 Comic Books. Nicky brought his favorite quirky duo back together when he co-wrote the comic books. He considers them the perfect odd couple!
  • Check out more Xander, Spike, and Spander inspired charms and pendants.

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About 1.Of.A.Kind.Mind
1.Of.A.Kind.Mind features one of a kind, handmade designs by Sarah Allison. Featuring crystals, gemstones, and lava stones. Natural elements are a great way to improve one’s life, health, and happiness along with having a positive mental attitude.

Nicholas Brendon, boyfriend of Sarah, toured 2018 & 2019 hosting meet & greets and fighting the stigma of mental illness. This is where Sarah asked a fellow jewelry maker to design “Buffy” inspired Fandom Keys Pendants to offer at events.
Nicholas Brendon is an American actor, artist, and writer. He is best known for his role “Xander Harris” on hit tv show Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

With touring over, Sarah is now enjoying making jewelry again after a long break. Looking for a jewelry set for special occasions or something you can wear everyday? Sarah is up for the challenge to create you a cherished piece of art. Please signup for 1.Of.A.Kind.Mind updates and post a comment on the home page.

About Sarah Allison’s Designs
At age 14 she took her first trip with her grandmother out West and discovered jewelry making. Meeting her Great Uncle ‘Pudge’ Allison for the first time in Albuquerque, NM, they set off to Paggosa Springs from there, CO. When driving into the small mountain town, they spotted a bead shop. She fell in awe and has been making jewelry for over 15 years.

Sarah’s designs typically feature natural elements. After losing her aunt to caner, she looked for natural ways of improving ones life and health and found DoTerra Essential Oil. The benefits from essential oils can relieve anxiety, stomach aches, muscle pain, headaches, and nausea for starters, allowing you to skip the medications and chemicals you normally would have turned to. To help facilitate this practice, she incorporates lava stones in her jewelry in which you may drop your favorite scent on, wearing it with you throughout the day. If you have any questions regarding essential oils she’d be happy to consult you and is a DoTerra representative.

Throughout Sarah’s sale career, she realized the power of having a positive mental attitude. Having the right state of mind can change everything! To help clear negativity and hone in on improvements one wants to make, Sarah incorporates crystals and natural elements into her designs. This beautiful step in a daily routine can make a positive impact. When one wants to clear negative energy and is wearing an element such as Smokey Quartz, it gives you a mind and earth bond strong enough to steer you away harmful energies.